Unlike a lot of 19-year-old virgins, Pettet will not be able to endure this often awkward, rite of passage in the privacy of the back seat of a car or a college dorm room - he's going to lose his virginity in a gallery, because. Like a lot of 19-year-old virgins (gay or straight), Clayton Pettet is really concerned about losing it and has been thinking about his first time for the past three years.